The Mystery of Polyandry in Nigeria

Polyandry is simply defined as a situation whereby a woman can have more than one husband at a time just like their men counterpart. Polyandry is simply the opposite of polygamy. Sometimes I keep wondering why society frowns at the practice of polyandry but wholeheartedly embraces polygamy. Are men more jealous than women?

Polyandry is a form of marriage in which a woman has multiple husbands at the same time. While it is relatively rare compared to polygamy (where a man has multiple wives), there are some documented cases of polyandry in Nigeria. I heard the practice is particularly prevalent among the Irigwe people in Plateau State, where it is known as “wife-sharing.”. There is a research work on it already and you can read it here.

The reasons for polyandry in Nigeria are complex and varied. In some cases, it is a matter of practicality. For example, in communities where there are more women than men, polyandry can ensure that all women have a husband. This is particularly important in societies where marriage is seen as a crucial part of a woman’s identity and where unmarried women may face social stigma.

The reasons for polyandry in Nigeria are complex and varied. In some cases, it is a matter of practicality. For example, in communities where there are more women than men, polyandry can ensure that all women have a husband. This is particularly important in societies where marriage is seen as a crucial part of a woman’s identity and where unmarried women may face social stigma.

In other cases, polyandry is a way for women to ensure their economic security. By having multiple husbands, a woman can increase her household income and reduce her dependence on any one man. This is particularly important in societies where women have limited economic opportunities and are often relegated to subsistence farming or other low-paying jobs.

Polyandry in Nigeria also has cultural and religious roots. For example, among the Irigwe people, wife-sharing is seen as a way to strengthen family ties and maintain harmony within the community. It is also seen as a way to honor ancestral traditions and customs.

However, despite the cultural and practical justifications for polyandry in Nigeria, it is still a controversial practice that is often met with resistance and criticism. Some argue that it is immoral and goes against traditional notions of marriage and family. Others contend that it can lead to jealousy, conflict, and even violence between husbands.

In conclusion, while polyandry is not common in Nigeria, it is an important aspect of some cultural traditions and practices. Understanding the reasons for polyandry and its impact on individuals and communities is crucial to developing policies and practices that respect cultural diversity and promote gender equality.