Most times when we start a new relationship (either platonic or romantic) we usually dedicate our time and probably resources to ensure we spend more time with such person or people. However, as time goes on, we realize that there is a decline in the communication process. The truth is that everyone is busy (It’s either you are busy doing something or you are busy doing nothing) but I usually frown at it when people use the phrase “I am busy” as an excuse to dump or bailout in a relationship. You don’t understand? I will explain.
You see as I mentioned earlier, everyone is busy and out of our busy schedules, we create time for those whom we want to see or be with. People only stop seeing the need to be with you or might have gotten what they wanted hence the phrase “I am busy”. Ask yourself these simple and honest questions.
When you ‘guys’ first met, wasn’t he/she a busy person? Did he/she create time for you guys to see or hook up? Was the communication much better then than now despite him/her being busy?
See, the truth is not far-fetched. Once you start getting these vibes, then I think it’s about time you brace up for landing to avoid stories that touch the heart.